2009年12月6日星期日

Get used to stepping outside your comfort zone

Everyone will have a comfort zone where we feel safe, warm and dry, but there also is a place to let us be useless.Be prepared to be a little brave everyday. In our life, we imposed a lot of restriction on ourselve that limit us, hold us back, and always think that we couldn't do this and that.

When we try to step out from our comfort zone, something new and good will come along,we will be more confidence, and we will feel good about ourself. taking the challenge of stepping out the comfort zone will keep us learning and growing.

2009年12月5日星期六

Today a reader, tomorrow a leader

Are yours noticed there are people you know who are still have the same dream, the same goal, the same problems, the same opportunities and the same way of thinking after fives years even ten years....it's like their watch stop moving anymore... we have to continue to learn, to improve and to grow...how? read and write, read more people blog, book from expertise...[write], write down what you know, and what others don know by blogging, reply or comment on what people posted. Share your knowledge and idea to the world. by doing this, you are able to learn more, and retain the knowledge in your mind...we can't make all the mistake by ourself, but we can learn from the mistake of others by reading their experience....leran from others, learn to see in the chanllenge of others the ills you should avoid...Anyone who keep stops learing is old, whether this happen in tweenty or eighty...

2009年11月22日星期日

An Enemy Called Average

Nugget#1 Your Least Favourite Colour Should Be Beige

Never try to defend your present position and situation; People who live in defensively never succeed. Instead, take the initiative. When you choose to be offensive, the atmosphere of your life will begin to change. If you don like your life, you should take action right now, make your life to be offensive.

When you do choose to be on the offensive, keep your conflict impersonal; fight the issue, not the person. You should think what you can do and not thinking of what others incapable to do. You will find that when all of your reasons are defensive, your cause almost never succeeds.

Being on the offensive and take the initiative are master keys that open the doors of opportunity in your life. Learn to create a habit of taking the initiative, and don’t ever start your day in neutral. Every morning when your feet hit the floor , you should think on the offensive, taking control of your days and your life.

Nugget#2 The Only Place To Start Is Where You Are

Start with what you have, not what you don’t have. Opportunity is always where you are, never where you were. Hamilton Mabie said, ‘the question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had the means, time, influence, and education advantage, but what he will do with the thing he has.’

Each person tends to either underrate or overrate that which they do not possess. Ed Howe said, ‘People are always refuse to do something what they can do and trying to do something they can not do.’ To be successful, do what you can, with what you have, where you are, the only way to learn anything thoroughly is by starting at the bottom.

To be upset over what you don’t have is to waste what you do have. You can not know what you can do until you try, the most important thing about reaching your dream id starting right where you are. Edward hail said, ‘I cannot do everything, but I still can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do.’